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God, I still have problems with humility.

Do i really come across as an airhead or a bimbo?

I thought i always understood a lot of things and i find it hard to accept it when he says i don’t seem to understand what he says. It hurts because i tend to reflect on my listening and communicative ability.

Am i supposed to paraphrase or mirror what he says all the time like what i have learnt from effective communication?

I find it so weird and unnatural doing that because of the acute awareness that these effective communication skills are usually used for counsellor/counselee relationships.

Oh Lord, help me.